Losing a Friend

She worked in my husband’s clinic. He always praised her work ethics, kindness, and general overall wonderful personality. I knew her through him, but also whenever I had a doctor appointment or speaking with her on the phone trying to contact my husband. She had a presence - and four daughters that were highly regarded. Whenever we visited the Midwest after we moved to DC, we always made it a point to visit her. She regularly sent birthday and Christmas cards. The last time we saw her was two years ago when we visited the Midwest. The last time we spoke was on the phone for my husband’s birthday not that long ago. Aside from the usual aches and pains of aging, she sounded good. Her husband was going through more health issues. So it was with a sad heart that we learned Bette had passed away unexpectedly this week. I found an old photo of her and my husband from the clinic and posted it on Facebook. A lot of our friends knew her too having worked in the hospital and had office visits themselves. Bette was the glue of the clinic - everyone knew her. Rest In Peace sweet Bette. We, and a lot of other people, will miss you! 

In Memory of Biuk K

There is no photo for this blog entry. Last night I heard that a colleague passed away. I have not thought about him for many years. I think the last time was when I saw a note on Facebook that he had retired. I knew him when I worked in a large heath care organization in the Midwest. He was a clinical engineer. I didn't really work with him - we passed each other in the hallway all the time. He was the kind of guy you liked to pass by in the hallway all the time. For whatever reason we started to chat because his last name was Iranian and I wanted to know more about him. Before we visited Iran in 1996 to visit my husband's home town and family, I asked him about his experience there. He was from Tabriz. He was married and had a couple of children I recall. When I came back from our adventure overseas I shared with him my photos of the trip. He was always so pleasant and sweet and you left whatever conversation you had with him with a smile on your face. So I felt a sting last night when I heard of his passing. All the comments people are making about him have that same reaction  - such a lovely soul. It's a wonderful way to be remembered. And it brings a smile to my face.